Your boyfriend is a misogynist, and I’m sorry if I’m the first one to say it. My boyfriend is also a misogynist — I do not exempt myself from my philosophical treatises. Many of you probably operate under a definition of misogyny that means an active anger at all women — I use it as Kate Manne does: to describe the patriarchal conditions that we all live under. Men are rewarded for conforming to behaviours and institutions that reproduce misogynistic structures, because if th